Envy Vs Jealosy

""Envy" vs "Jealousy".Yes I am going to throw light on these commonly used words.Most of us consider them as synonyms but they are slightly different .I will cite my own feelings as an example .Envy is what I experience when I see people who get selected in tier 1 B school and when they get to live a really glamorous B school Student life and finally when they become business professionals.Now let's talk about " Jealousy" .I love a girl .The girl puts a dp  with an weird guy.I don't feel like talking to her .I feel like Blocking her forever .Even though I am a strong advocate of having gender diversity at workplace ,school ,colleges and have always said that girls and boys must have equal rights and privileges. But when it comes to this girl my own principles about gender Diversity become self contradictory .I feel that her dp  with only girls or a groupfiee with friends is worth seeing.So finally I will conclude by saying that Envy is about a "desire to  possess" what other person has .Jealousy is Fear of losing our "someone special".

So "Tagged"??????

Today I write about "Tag" .Yes a "tag".Confused ????I will scrutinize a "tag" we commonly face on very social networking sites like "Facebook"," Instagram" etc etc. A "tag" is like an "EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL". Once a friend tags me ,then I have to  "like it" or "Comment on it". We become morally(Or Psychologically)  obliged to do so.Let me clarify I am NOT AT ALL AGAINST anyone tagging me.But if I have absolutely No relation to the pic(like a groupFie) then what is the use of tagging me.Most of the tags I receive are  in a selfie . We cannot do anything because if we oppose it ,then we feel that our friend may feel bad and that's why I Call it an " emotional blackmail" and ultimately we have to "like it" or "comment  on it" .I don't know a solution to it but I know its a part of our life or rather a " Way of Life".So "Tagged" ,isn't it????........

What is "matter" for me???

Everyone of you will  give various definitions of MATTER,when I ask what is "matter" according to you .For a 7 th or a 8th standard student ,"matter" is something that occupies space,volume, or specifically it is  solid,liquid or gas.For a 10th ,11th or 12 th standard student ,"matter" is like having a direct fight with your enemies.Obviously those "enemies" are none other than his own classmates or coachingmates ,all those who he doesn't see eye to eye and "fight"is nothing else than  a fist fight .For an engineering student, the "matter " is the person of opposite gender.Specifically a girfriend.Amongst all the definitions of "matter" this one  intrigues me the most.Entire btech  1 st year ,I coudnt find a girl suited to be my "matter".The same story continued continued in 2 nd ,3 rd year and now I have made myself a no "matter person.Obviously I had many crushes but no crush turned into a fixed "matter".Few months back I was very close to having a "matter",(*seriously committed matter) but still I ask myself time to time -----"What is matter for me"???